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Sometimes girls come into work, I am talking about "regular" girls now - not dancers. And after a while some of them, not all, want to go on stage too, strut their stuff and shake what their Mama gave them. And we let them, it's always a fun time.
Well, last Saturday a group of five, two girls and three guys came in, all in their early 20's. One of the girls lost some kind of a bet and that apparently meant that she had to go on stage.
She danced for two songs and did really well. She wasn't shy at all. And most importantly, she had fun! Unfortunately her totally lame and possessive boyfriend didn't have as much fun.
He was pissed! He left the stage area and went over to a corner and moped the entire time she was dancing. When she was done and dressed (she stripped down to her panties) he came back and acted like a total jerk. WTF? Like, what did she do wrong exactly? SHE had fun, she looked cute, all of us were clapping and tipping, her other friends had a blast and were supportive.
So what that she danced around a pole for two songs in her panties? I can think of a million other things that are way worse to do. She didn't hurt anyone, she didn't cheat on him bla bla bla.....
HE is an insecure, jealous prick. I hope she dumps him. No guy owns a woman, she can do whatever she wants. Even if that entails going up on stage in a strip club for ten minutes of totally INNOCENT fun dancing. Guys can be so lame!
I can't stand possessive guys, it's ok to be a little jealous, I mean we are all human and can get insecure and jealous at times but COME ON! And showing some boobs in a strip club? SHOCKING! I could understand him getting pissed if she whipped them out at a funeral or at Grandma's dinner but it's a strip club for crying out loud. People are so sensitive to nudity, I grew up in Sweden so boobs don't shock me. How you are acting as a person is more shocking to me, if you do something weird/evil instead of partake in some innocent nudity. Also there is a time and place for everything. Plus he had no problem staring at me and the other girls while we were on stage, she (the girlfriend) didn't act insecure or jealous, in fact she was really cool and was out to have a good time. But when she decided to go on stage his demeanor totally changed. BARF. Dump him girl!

I drove to Anchorage yesterday, I got up when it was dark and came home when it was dark. There are so many places to eat in Anchorage but the last couple of times when I have been there I have been going to the Yak & Yeti. The food there is sooooo yummy, simple but good.



I found another pair of Hard Tail leggings (workout pants) in the color "Berry", like a dark pink.
I was hoping to find some pinkish pants to workout in. Score! But I have to run now, need to do some errands real quick. More blogging later.

While I was in the bath this evening shaving and messing with an ingrown hair that finally decided to plop out after months of hibernating in my inner thigh......and it was looooooong too (I wish I had a pic of it). Anyways the tv was on in the background while I was in the bath and some show called The Mob Doctors was on and in it a woman was in the hospital for some medical issue. She was a former dancer (stripper) and talked about what surgeries she had......a nose job, something with the stomach and of course implants. You know the normal stuff. Well, she didn't know whether she had saline or silicone implants. LOL. Talk about really pushing the stereotypical, dumb dancer in people's faces on a Saturday evening across America. First of all, every dancer out there with implants knows whether she has saline or silicone implants, what cc's the implants are and whether it's under or over the muscle. DUH! I would hope the rest of the "common" women out there that have implants know this too cause TRUST ME, dancers are far from the only ones with breast implants. Or other plastic surgeries too for that matter. I am all au naturel myself, no surgeries or implants. Maybe one day I'll get a unicorn horn implanted in my forehead or something like that. Well, that was not the first time that I heard dancers get portrayed as total idiots on tv, I am getting tired of it. Thinking about it, I feel HURT and INSULTED maybe even somewhat TRAUMATIZED......! I might sue or organize a million dancer march in Washington DC. Compared to a ton of people I meet on a regular basis I think that I am far from dumb. So I feel totally misrepresented! Anyways......
So today I did exactly what I said I would do yesterday, I did errands, got a latte from Kaladi and went to the gym. I am at work right now, writing this blog from there. Well, earlier at the gym while walking on the treadmill I was looking around, because what else is there to do while walking on the treadmill? I was observing a skinny (almost bony) cougar in some shorts that BARELY covered her ass.......When it comes to that "rule" that less is more, well that does not apply to what you wear at the gym. When she was bending over and she did that frequently to stretch while turning her flat backside to the room, (I assume on purpose) you could see her ass cheeks, barely there ass cheeks because she was close to anorexic looking but probably thought she looked hot Though in reality she kind of looked pathetic and desperate. And too skinny in my book but it's her body not mine. Personally, I do not want to see anybody's ass cheeks, VAGINE lips or balls sticking out of some too short shorts at the gym. Save that for the beach or something. It's kind of gross to sit down on a damp with sweat weight machine after somebody has been sitting on it before you with their barely covered private parts. I think it's totally ok to dress cute at the gym but when you wear a miniscule outfit because you are trying to show off either your ass or your chest it looks comical and comes across like you are trying too hard.
And yes, I am referring to women AND men now. I don't want to see some hairy man chest and nipples showing through a revealing tank top either, or worse - some saggy balls......
Yeah, that's my opinion and I KNOW ya'll just LOOOOOVEEE my opinions! 🙂

Tonight was a slow night but that's ok. Most people were probably out on New Years and spent all their money anyways, tomorrow night will be better. So I organized my lockers, all three of them. Took home some bracelets and necklaces that I don't wear anymore, gave away some earrings and an outfit. And that is me on the couch, that couch is the best. Since I don't smoke, sitting at the bar surrounded by smokers can be too much at times, There is no smoking allowed on the couch and I can actually breathe somewhat clean air, I can read, I can take a nap, I can stretch out my legs, I can curl up if I am cold, I can relax, I can get away from annoying people although many follow me to the couch, stalkers!
I am in bed now, it's a little after 3 am. Just had some tea, I am going to read some blogs for a while before I go to sleep. Tomorrow - errands, latte from Kaladi, gym and work.

It's Friday, the first Friday of 2013 to be precise. It was nice outside......



I went to the gym this afternoon, it felt great. I don't trust the burned calories counter on the machines, like the one on the elliptical I used today. It indicates that I burned 360 calories, I always subtract 40 from whatever the number is, so I burned about 320. That's how I count it.
When I work out I like to wear some kind of a legging, I like the brand Hard Tail. I usually wear a tank top, a t shirt and a hoodie in case I get cold. And a sportsbra of course, I don't want anything bouncing around.




And I am working tonight, have to wash my hair......



And here are tonights beautifying tools. The make up and lashes for the evening.

Well, the other night I was looking at the local rants and raves section on Craigslist.......You rarely read anything positive on there, people around here have lots to complain about, at least the ones writing things on rants and raves. I get so tired of it. So I thought I would do something NICE and write a few positive things about the places that I like to go to. Since most posts about food establishments are negative. Do something nice! It feels good! Here is my post........click heeeeere 🙂