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Entries from March 2013

Saturday, March 9. 2013

Stainless Steel

So I got myself a stainless steel mug for my daily lattes so I don't have to waste a paper cup every day. I think that I want the pink ceramic mug they have at Kaladi too. Mine is from Starbucks and has the Starbucks logo on it. I like the Starbucks logo because it is a mermaid and I love mermaids.



"The original logo, conceived in 1971, was fashioned after a 15th century Norse woodcut, the image of a mythical two-tailed mermaid siren. The siren, as you may recall from Greek mythology, was an alluring and irresistible female figure, typically half-fish/half-women (the mermaid variety). The siren's objective was to a seduce the seagoing mariner with a powerful enticing song most often to the unfortunate demise of the susceptible sailor who could not resist temptation."



And it feels like Spring is slowly arriving here. For two days in a row I've had that feeling, it's warming up, the snow is slowly melting, the sun's rays are warming.
Nice! I am ready!

International Womens Day

Today March 8 is International Women's Day. I am sitting here this evening thinking about some issues that are close to my heart and upset me a lot regarding women. Female Genital Mutilation. Rape. Sex Trafficking. Child Brides. I have written several blogs about that throughout the years.
I do regard myself as a feminist and I am proud over that fact. You might not agree that I can possibly refer myself as a feminist since I am a dancer and do get naked or topless in various clubs, that is how I make a living. SHOCKING! But I think that you can be a feminist AND a dancer, at least I can. If you know me or have spent any time engaged in a conversation with me, you would probably agree. And on that note.....
GOOD NIGHT! ❤



Friday, March 8. 2013

Frugal

I can be somewhat frugal, or should I say mindful. For example, I try to ecodrive as much as possible and I think it is irritating when other people accelerate only to be stepping on the brakes shortly afterwards. I also cut open conditioner bottles, tooth paste tubes and lotion bottles to make sure to use everything that's in there. You would be surprised if you never done this how much product is still in what you might think was an empty conditioner bottle. Plus good conditioner is pricey. So that's a tip for you......be frugal but not when you go to the strip club, then it is time to be generous! Bring at least $ 50 K and make it rain like Drake does. ;-)



I am so tired, slept only for five hours. Thinking about taking a nap before work tonight. Also my cell phone is starting to break down, I don't change phones often so the one I have is old. So I am thinking about getting a new phone but the selection at the AT&T store in town is not the greatest. Plus I can't decide if I should get a smartphone like an iPhone or maybe a Samsung Galaxy or just stick to a "regular" cell phone. That is my problem of the day. I think it is time for a nap now.......

Early Night

It is 2 15 and I am already in bed, wearing my light blue soft pajama pants, eating some cottage cheese and drinking tea. It was an early night at work tonight. Good! 🙂
You know what I find annoying at work is like tonight for example.......a guy came up to me and asked if I remembered him and after I studied him for a few seconds trying to remember but didn't and politely told him that, "No, sorry I do not remember you", he got all huffy and puffy because I did not recall him although he supposedly was in the club like two months ago. Two months is a long time for me, I meet and talk to a lot of people in a two month span. Unless you made some kind of lasting impression on me then no, I won't remember you. That is just how it is. I am not a person with photographic memory when it comes to stuff like that and I can be bad with names too. You have to come back a few times and talk to me OR like I said, leave some kind of impression for me to remember you. Not just be in there and engage in some small talk with me once. Maybe if you make it rain a couple of thousands of dollars on me I will remember you..........!
Another highly annoying thing is when some drunk guy tells me to not be so serious or lighten up, in like an in my face rude way. Shut the fuck up already! Do not tell me what to do. It happened last night. He had been talking to a girl that refers to herself as
"XX the Ho Ho" so you can just figure out how she acts at work. I am writing "X" instead of her real name. Basically she gives guys the whole buffet and some extra cheese on top. I don't. Ever. That is not what I am in there for. You want the whole buffet with all the toppings from me? You would have to become my boyfriend, only then darling, only then. So since I wasn't all over him and letting him grope me he though that I should lighten up. Go kick rocks with no shoes you dumb ass I basically told him and proceeded to ignore him. I am so good at ignoring guys and it drives them crazy.
Many of them have a very hard time dealing with that a dancer is ignoring them. So he kept on coming back over and over again, trying to talk to me. But I've had enough of him. Don't tell me to lighten up - I don't like that shit.
And this is what I look like when I am annoyed.



Well........I am going to read a little and then sleep. Goodnight all my fans!




Thursday, March 7. 2013

Making It Rain

I don't know if you heard anything about it but Drake (a rapper) is the latest "celebrity" to go into a strip club with a wads of dollar bills that he threw all over the girls, hence the expression "making it rain". It is mostly associated with urban (black or Hispanic) guys and happens more frequently in the more urban type strip club IN MY OPINION, from what I have seen. Although I am not saying that white guys ever do this, I have seen them throw money around "making it rain style" too. To me, it is a rather tacky and a poor way of showing that you can afford to be a baller like that, although it is kind of fun to watch. I'd much rather get a few $ 100 bills or $ 50 bills discretely put on my stage or handed to me (and yes it has happened......OF COURSE) than having to crawl around, picking up a few hundred dollars in one dollar bills scattered all over the stage. Plus when the whole stage is covered with money it makes it difficult to dance on it. BUT on the other hand I am not going to frown when somebody does throw large quantities of money on my stage either, I will graciously accept it but like I said......I find it somehow a tacky display of how nouveau riche you are. Anyways........since Drake made the news of going into some club in North Carolina with a box of $ 50 000 that he tipped the girls with many people have voiced their opinions about this.
LIKE.......Drake, there are better ways to spend 50 K than on some strippers and like some "smart" writer Liz Braun wrote in an online article for Sun News, "Yes, yes, strippers need money, too, but it's tough to support anything that further contributes to the objectification of women. Sorry -- to the objectification of bitches and hos."
I see........strippers are bitches and hos and we do not deserve to make a living. On the other hand, women like Liz Braun that sit and write articles on their computer deserve to get large sums of money because she (Liz Braun and her kind) is educated and does not subject herself to objectification. Or maybe Drake should had donated the money to a charity instead? Like Alex Rodriguez's (A-Rod) charity for example that gave a whopping 1 % of the donations received to charitable causes. CLASSY and GENEROUS I must say!
I wonder if Liz Braun would had declined the 50 K if Drake would had dropped it in her lap? I also wonder if she wears make up, high heels and if she acts in any kind of way that would suggest that she contributes to the objectification of women? Do you Liz Braun?
First of all, Drake didn't give the 50 K to one girl, this money was distributed among several girls. So lets say as an example that 20 of the girls working that night got a share of that 50 K, $ 2 500 each. What can you do with $ 2 500? Even 50 K to me is not an astronomical sum of money. 50 K would not dramatically change my life. $ 5 MILLION would but not 50 K. Liz Braun probably thinks that strippers or bitches and hos like she puts it spend the money they make on drugs, booze, maybe some loser boyfriend, expensive handbags, clothes etc when there are people out there starving that need it better. HA HA! Let me tell you what I spend MY money on.........bills, mortgage (property in Vegas), gas, groceries, dog food, savings and investments, expenses in general........And yes once in a while I do buy myself something nice, get a facial or go on a trip and what is wrong with that? I also donate to charitable causes and have a collection going for animals in need. AND 100 % of the donations received will go to the animals, not an embarrassing meekly 1 %.
Liz Braun and people like her should focus their energy and writings on why some celebs flaunt that they can afford a $ 40 K bag as a gym bag or need to wear two really expensive watches on their wrist at a time to show off how rich they are..........lol.......talk about TACKY! If I had let's say Kim Lardassian's (Kardashian) money I would do so much good and definitely not be tacky, you can trust me on that one.
But I also don't have a sex tape out there with some celebrity that will catapult me to fame (neither would I want to) or some over zealous Mom manager (momager) pimping me out. So what that some strippers had a good night at work? GOOD FOR THEM! And good for Drake! He appreciates the ladies! Do they not deserve that or need the money because they are strippers? Do politicians in Washington DC need to make as much as they make when probably half of the time they clock in at work they sit around and yawn, check their Facebook and pick their noses and don't do anything useful at all?
I work for my money that I make in the strip club, thank you!

I did write Sun News an e mail where I told them what I think about Liz Braun and her article and I will leave a comment too. Of course they have not answered me.......you know after all, I am just a stripper bitch/ho. LOL. Oh.......little do they know........ ;-)
Read the article here

And before I end this........let me add something here about the objectification of women that apparently I as a stripper contribute to. First of all, if somebody comes into where I work and acts like an ass to me.......I will let it be known and I do NOT tolerate it. I do not need anyone's money that bad. Women dress skimpy all over the place. Does the Victoria's Secret fashion show, Sports Illustrated, The Pirelli Calendar,
the Carl's Jr commercials with women eating hamburgers while clad in small bikinis contribute to the objectification of women? YES! So do not blame it all on the strippers. Strippers are vilified while the girls walking the runway for Victoria's Secret are glorified. Why is that?



PS. NOT me in the pic.

Wednesday, March 6. 2013

Shounen Kung-fu

MY BROTHER MADE A GAME and it is now released and I think that YOU NEED to get it!!!!! 🙂

Shounen Kung-fu is all about reflexes, how fast are you in executing your kung-fu?
Tap the screen and help Wei defeat waves of enemies as they try to stop him from recovering what has been taken from his new master. Learning the rhythm of each level and enemy is crucial to acing the game and unlocking every single level.
Execute fully 3D animated kung-fu fight moves as you battle mongols, ninjas and even aliens! Complete special levels using all your might and unlock bonus levels that take you far away from the world Wei is familiar with.

Visit www.thatanimator.com or www.facebook.com/Thatanimator to see the trailer and get more information about the game!

Or click here

I had 980 people sniffing around here on my blog yesterday........wondering what I am up to. I haven't asked a whole lot from you besides keep reading and a comment now and then would be nice too. 🙂
BUT this time I am asking you to get my brothers game, he worked hard by himself and got it done and I am very proud of him!