Mr Ashwin. He commented on THIS entry that I borrowed from a girl called DominoXXX, she writes a blog too. I put three of her blog entries (with her permission of course) in my blog because I thought they were funny, kind of true and relate to stripping. Mr Ashwin had this to say.
"I have never seen an Indian guy at a strip club. Even the FOB Indians are not interested in white meat as soon as they land on western shores. They are still homesick and have a picture of an Indian women as their ideal dream girl, not a white one.
I find it hard to believe what you said here: "They try to touch you, and on the off chance that they do buy a dance, chances are theyโll pull out their cock and expect a blow job." Never, most Indian guys are virgin till their marriage. They lose their virginity at the age of 21 years old which is the latest in the entire world.
I do believe in stereotypes if they are true, but this one just ins't even nearly true.
I am pretty sure you are an Indian because it is only Indians who notice other Indians if they were at the strip club, and you must also be Americanised because you are trying to intentionally distance yourself from the FOB Indians just to make it seem that it the FOB who create this negative stereotype and you are not part of it.
I think the India Guy write up seems to be based on your own personal experiences. You must have been this FOB once and have changed to this Americanised version, hence you are really writing about your past, aren't you?"
I don't think that Mr Ashwin is a reader of my blog although I am fairly certain he will be now.
If he would had been a reader he would know that I am NOT Indian and I guess I would pass for "White" since this is the label I would get here in the US. I never thought too much about labels like that when I lived in Sweden.
Mr Ashwin, I have seen many Indian guys in strip clubs and note that it wasn't me that wrote that entry, it was DominoXXX. Although I can tell you this much, many of the Indian men I have encountered at my job have been rather demanding, not understanding or wanting to understand that they are in a strip club and not a brothel and they were often persistent with creepy demands, a few of them have been borderline rough, trying to hold me down while I was trying to get up and away from them etc. Maybe a cultural thing? You know how in some cultures women's rights are not as pronounced. I know that I am far from the only dancer that had these experiences with Indian men in the club, some dancers flat out refuse to approach them because of similar circumstances. This is well known in the dancer community. Maybe Indian guys prefer Indian ladies and dislike white meat as you call it.
I myself think that many Indian women are absolutely gorgeous and I think that Aishwarya Rai is one of the most beautiful women in the world. What kind of meat a guy prefers does not concern me but trust me I have seen quite a few Indian guys in strip clubs so I guess they must like watching different kind of meat once in a while. As far as them being virgins or not.....I wouldn't know. I don't ask random people if they are virgins. And most clubs in the US (where they serve alcohol) are 21 and over so I assume the Indian men that visit those clubs are devirginized, based on the statistics you provided in your comment.
I have met many nice Indian people, I even have Indian readers that are lovely. So please do not take any of this as an insult. Of course I know that far from every Indian guy is some creepy demanding perv. BUT I have ran into a few of the creepy ones at work and that is just stating the facts.
Mr Ashwin, I hope this answer clarifies some of your concerns. I hope that you are not too upset. And welcome to my blog, I am sure you will LOVE it! PS.....thank you for commenting too!
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I feel bad for you and Jax.....I looked at the site and it makes a lot of sense. It is so scary when you don't not know whether to take the vets advice and go for surgery or not....you only want what's best for your friend.
I read an article last night, here is a snippet, "thereโs a provocative and fascinating opinion article in the New York Times by neuroeconomics professor Gregory Burns where he describes his latest work studying dogs. After training and scanning the brains of dozens of them, he says heโs left with the inescapable conclusion that โdogs are people, too.โ
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Thank You!
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