Week 30, 31 and 32
"Tati, dancer was rude to me and told me to shut the fuck up after I said X Y Z and/or acted like a loud obnoxius troglodyte." "Tati, dancer would not take her outfit off on the stage, even after I put money down for her." "Dancer refused to give me her phone number even after I pestered her for it several times." Barf. Shut up, go away. This is not the girlfriend shop or a dating app. We do not want a boyfriend and no we do not want to go hang out in the middle of the night with you and your friends, even though your room supposedly has a (dirty) jacuzzi. Like......a jacuzzi? OMG I am RUSHING out of the club just so I can try it out, never dipped my foot into one before.
I mean, back in the day when me and my friend Shelley danced in Vegas we would frequently dine at one of the best restaurants at the Bellagio. One of the top chefs in Vegas had a crush on Shelley and told us that whenever we were hungry we were welcome to come have a meal, on him. No expectations. IF you left the club to go meet up with somebody it would be to go gamble somewhere, in PUBLIC. And not with my own money. Fine dining and a nice conversation - check. If you can offer that then maybe. And NO expectations, of course.
Sitting in a jacuzzi, clenching a Pabst Blue Ribbon and getting burped on by some horny guy who is hoping for some sex just does not seem appealing at all. No thanks. I rather be home sleeping. Any day of the week.
Last week Friday a group of sour looking standoffish men decided to come in. Sat in a group at a table, stared at us, talked about us. We did not approach them. One of them came up to me and asked for a dance. Towards the end of the dance I hear some yelling outside of the dance area. One of his buddies thought it would be fun to go sit on the stage with his fun Meta glasses on and record one of the dancers. So she ripped the glasses off his face and broke them in half. Yea, that is what you get when you play stupid games......you win stupid prices. They left. She called the police. Her and I talked to a very nice officer outside the club about the incident. He was on our side, of course.
I stopped taking anything off on stage at this particular club well over a year ago. Not worth it. Too many people staring for free from the bar area. People trying to record or take pictures. I do not care about the money lost. In fact we are talking about all of us not taking anything off on the stage and saving that part for the lap dances. I would like that but I know that most likely it won't happen because some of the girls are more concerned with pleasing the guys. Not me. I think we should all wear burqas on stage.
I walk around and sit around wrapped in a black long piece of fabric most of the time. Or this see through robe. It depends on what outfit I am wearing.
The club is unfortunately as far from a gentlemens club as you can get. Bad behavior gets tolerated and it takes a lot to get kicked out. These behaviors would not be acceptable in most other clubs. I personally have very low tolerance for it all.

