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This here is an old pic of me, I can tell because my eyebrows were thinner but besides that everything else looks pretty much the same today.
The photographer was my friend Pepe. A great man from Cuba that I actually met a work at the first club I worked at, Starz in Gardena CA. He had a photo studio and I spent many hours there taking pictures, even learning to develop them, like this one - I developed it myself in his darkroom.
We shared many lunches at a Cuban restaurant, where I always ordered black beans, rice and plantains. I enjoyed many good talks about life with him. I called Pepe "grandpa" because that's what he became to me.

I just read some article about a man, here in the US that has 30 kids with 11 different women. To me, that is totally disgusting. First of all, as a woman.....I would had never allowed myself to get pregnant by him, let alone even date him.
That guy should be forced to have a vasectomy. I do not approve of mindless breeding. For humans and animals.
I do not have kids and I actually would rather not get involved in a relationship with somebody that has kids. I prefer men with no kids. Kids are like baggage, they come with baby mama's and potential problems. I would consider it if the guy was my dream man, somebody I felt very strongly for or if the kids were grown up already, like teenagers.
But a guy with a toddler or even worse, two or more toddlers, no thanks. When I hear about single people with small kids that date around I get annoyed. I think they should concentrate on being a parent first and only and forget about the dating until later. The first five or six years of a child's life are crucial for how the child will develop as an individual and if you constantly date around and bring home new "mommy's and daddy's then I think you are being an irresponsible parent. How do they find the time to date with a few small kids to take care of, if they are the primary care giving parent that is.
And really, who would like to date a person with 30 kids already? What a turn off. And what about Octomom, she has 14 kids and she takes care of them all, no daddy around. I don't think she has too many suitors. But maybe she isn't looking either.
I watched the new Bachelorette (Emily) the other day and some guy was on there and he was a father of six. Of course she didn't want to date him, I wouldn't either. How about you build a strong relationship with your wife first before you start to reproduce? And stick with the marriage. Six kids are four too many. One or two kids maybe.
And I think the Bachelorette herself should be happy that any guy wants to deal with her and her baggage, meaning her kid. Actually, she should be single a few more years.
Sure there are always some exceptions of great people that make it work and are amazing parents even though there is one child or a handful of children involved. But most of the time, I see some questionable parenting.

If it wasn't for all the funny and sometimes annoying characters I work with and sometimes encounter while at work I wouldn't have any stories for all my readers.......
Last night was.....ok......not good but worth my time. BUT there is a girl at work that is super funny but also her behavior is changing the whole atmosphere in there. And I am not the only one that has complained about this issue.
She is acting really slutty. I do not know her outside of the club. I think that she has a lot of good things going for her but the way she is acting with the guys that come in overshadow everything else. That's too bad.
For example, another girl I work with told me that whenever she would sit and chat with a guy and had to leave for a while, either to go on stage or go to the restroom, this other girl, the slutty one, would sit down with the guy immediately and start rubbing his crotch (!), yes, you read it right, his crotch under the table or bar. After a few minutes of this and her dirty talk, she talks dirty all the time, most of the guys would leave and get some dances with her. You might think this is ok but it is NOT. First of all, we have rules to follow. The rules are there from a legal standpoint and also the rules make it fair for everyone. When one or a few girls constantly break the rules, the club can get shut down or the owner may be slapped with a heavy fine. And the guys that come in there will start thinking that this is "normal" dancer behavior and are going to expect it from every girl that approaches them and won't get dances unless you are willing to act like this. Also, SOME (not all) dancers see this and think they have to act the same way in order to make money and the whole club gets destroyed. And gets a bad reputation. Not good.
Let me explain something to you, I NEVER put my hands of face in a guys crotch. Or inside his pants. Why girls do this, I don't know. Why???
Last night some guys came in, they had never been there before. Right away, the "slutty girl" attacked them, she does that, latches on as soon as somebody walks through the door. And one of the first things that came out of her mouth was "I am easy and sleazy". I was within earshot, so I heard her say it. That set the tone for them. I would never in my life say this to some random guys that come in.
Because I am NOT easy and NOT sleazy.
I can JOKE around with people, like Borat style jokes, but usually it's with people that come in all the time and it is understood that we are joking around and other people are laughing and joking too. It's not like I walk up to random guys, grab their private parts and whisper in their ear about all the sleazy stuff I am willing to do if they get a dance. Yuck.
Then she sat at the bar with them while they were digging in between her ass cheeks. Cute. Not.
There are many clubs that would fire her right away, her style of working would not be ok at many clubs. And that's a good thing.
So this is becoming a problem actually. A problem means - when I think another persons behavior is directly affecting my income.
I am not going to act the way she does in order to maybe make money. Therefore, she needs to tone it down, a lot and follow the rules.
It really is too bad that there are girls that damage stripping like this. The outcome is that the quality girls will leave and only the nasty ones will be around. So unfortunate for everybody involved.

I love how dip dyed hair looks. It is so cute. I would like to try it but I am not sure since my hair is so long. In case you never seen me in real life, I have hair down to my butt crack. But then I found a pic of a girl with long hair that's dip dyed and it looks good, I think.
I do not change my hair often at all, it's been long and light brown forever. I would try dip dye if I could put in a temporary color and if I did not have to bleach the ends of my hair, since the bleaching process is so damaging.
I also read that you can color the tips by using felt pens or markers, that seems like a good idea since the color washes out right away.
Hmmmmm......maybe I will try felt pens see what happens.






Images borrowed from google.

Here is my BORING to do list of today.......
Vacuum. It's like the most awful chore ever. I think I'd rather scrub a toilet.
Drive to town to get food and do some errands, that feels like a chore too today. Until I get the food that is, then I will be very happy.
Spend some time outside with Chhaya. I don't mind doing that. The sun is shining but it is cold and windy. Another Arctic day, bleh.
Shower, shave, lotion up, glue on my lashes and go to work. Feels like a chore too. So it better be worth my time!
I think I need some quality time in front of a huge speaker blasting some house music and dark beats. If I am not mistaken that is coming up.
Also, trying to decide if I should schedule some more Williston time for the fall, this has to be planned months in advance, kind of like going to the Oscars. Though instead of some Hollywood glam it's just a dusty little town in North Dakota where strippers go.

I can't wait to see The Dictator with Sacha Baron Cohen. I LOVE him, I think he is the funniest person ever. And he is cute, in real life. And he is probably really smart too besides the funny part - the perfect man. Though he is kind of too hairy but on the other hand, he won't go bald anytime soon. Anyway, I wish I could meet him sometime so I could impress him with my Borat accent. And I would shave his hairy legs. He would LIKE!!!
I am number one in Alaska!!!

The Dictator

Photo by Mike Marsland/Wireimage

Borat

Photo by Evan Agostini/Getty Images

Bruno

Photo by Eamonn McCormack/WireImage

Speaking of movies, check out Tom Cruise's latest pics for his upcoming movie Rock of Ages. Like, WOW! Talk about transformation. I am impressed. I am not a Tom Cruise fanatic, I think he seems kind of odd in his personal life but career wise he is a determined little fucker.
I can't believe this is actually him.




Credit MARIO SORRENTI for W