Welcome to Chaos !!

It's still Monday here but barely, only a few minutes left until midnight. Before I headed out this afternoon I forced myself to make two phone calls that I had pushed aside for about a week, nothing special. One was to cancel a service I decided that I don't want and the other was to call about a charge on my phone bill. Simple but yet so difficult to deal with. Procrastination.....And since I was in the mood of getting things done I later decided to defriend some people on Facebook that in all reality I don't consider my friends anymore. Maybe they once were but I am a give and take kind of friend.
I believe in giving A LOT and I am very generous. If they need me for anything, I am there. Unfortunately, looking back "being there" for some people in my life turned out to be a huge mistake but that's life. I am still doing good.
But if a person is acting like they don't care, then why should I bother with them? So I defriended a few today, this is the second time I have done that, a while back I defriended some other "non worthy" fake Facebook friends.
I am not the person to collect hundreds of Facebook friends. I mean, do people even know the hundreds and sometimes more "friends" the have on Facebook personally?
I have 49. And a few of those I am not close with I have to admit but I do have some form of connection to them. I guess I could friend request every single person I went to high school with and then friend request all of their friends and end up with hundreds of friends on my Facebook profile too......to feel what? Special? Instead I am thinking about shaving off a few more. I think you can consider yourself a lucky person if you can pick up the phone and get assistance in a life crisis from 49 people. Or somebody that listens to what you have to say. Or even consider 49 people true friends is lucky.
And I don't think I could count on that from all of my 49 Facebook friends, many of them don't even live in the US. But a few of them I have known since I was eight years old and when I do go to Sweden we meet and catch up.
I should probably defriend a few people outside of Facebook also. My problem is that I am a very loyal person, so I stick around. But thinking about it, people that are "too busy" to be a friend are really not worthy of being my friend. And some of these people don't even work, so then what are they doing that keeps them so busy? Sleep?
Watch tv? Nothing? I work, not every day but I do work and take care of all kinds of things during the day and somehow I have never been "too busy" to call somebody back or pay attention to a friend when they needed something. Give and take.
I need to get rid of the ones that only take. The one day when they will need me I am not going to bother with them.
But now I think I am going to get busy with reading some magazines.......

Just checked my comments......and saw this one, "What should women do about the gray hair 'down there'? Shave it . . . try coloring . . leave it gray? Any advice?"
Recently I wrote a blog about what color I use for my gray hair on my HEAD that I discovered as a teenager. 18.
I am the first to admit this, I am vain and yes I do color my hair because I personally do not want to walk around with gray hair. It looks great on some older women but I am not that old yet and like myself more in my "real" color. I know many girls that color their gray hair but they would rather die than admit to it. As far as gray pubic hair goes and what you should do......
Well, that is up to YOU. I don't have the answer to that. Do whatever is right for you and not what somebody else wants. I don't have gray pubes. See, I'm not that old.....yet.
But I think that women should do whatever suits them when it comes to the hair on their head and body. If you want a bushy VAGINE, hairy armpits, gray hair, no hair etc then suit yourself.
I do not think you should shave, wax or color because society says you should.
I personally wax my thighs once in a while, right now I have long dark hairs all over my legs, it looks like spider legs. I have always trimmed and shaved the hair down there because to me, it seems cleaner and looks nicer. The same goes for my armpits. But I am talking about my personal taste now. To me it is also nicer when guys trim their fro's down there. The less hair you have down there the cleaner it seems. BUT if some guy (as in boyfriend) told me to shave, color, trim or whatever then I would probably dump him or do the opposite and grow out a bush then sit on his face to teach him a lesson.
I think coloring the hair down there light pink would probably look cute too.
I know that girls are subjected to the air brushed and hair free VAGINES in Playboy, Hustler and other magazines and think that all girls should look like that. Well, not even the girls in those pics look like THAT. They shaved, waxed, tanned and the pics got air brushed and retouched before getting published. In porn they use body make up, certain lighting and angles to create the look they want. Real life is REAL and full of "flaws" for a lack of a better word. But then again, you can't have a relationship with some girl in a magazine. Only in your fantasy.
I am glad I got that comment, even though I suspect it was meant as a joke. I didn't know what to say today and that comment gave me something to write about, so thank you whoever you are.......
With that said, I am getting dressed now and taking Chhaya for a walk.

Yesterday I met up with Lexi for some lunch at Veronicas. We exchanged Christmas gifts......it's still Christmas around here......





In the evening I went to work and it turned out to be a really slow Saturday for all of us.
BUT I want to show you my new brush that I got at The Body Shop. It's slanted as you can see and I love it. I don't use powder, only to control shine when I do photo shoots. But I do like to use shimmers once in a while to high light my cheek bones. And this brush is on sale right now, 50 % off. It's a great brush for the money.
This afternoon I went into town to take care of some stuff. Planning on spending my evening cozying up in bed with Chhaya watching movies and reading some magazines.
I love lazy Sundays. Sundays are made for good food, watching movies and reading. Nourishing your soul.

Pics from work last night......
Black bracelet around my wrist, a matching one on the other wrist......



I like the lace detail of these Honey Dew's......



Stage......



Shoe......

It's the night between Thursday and Friday. I am at home and in bed. Watching a rerun of the Today show with Kathie Lee and Hoda, they are fun. I freakin' love Hoda, she seems to be a genuinely nice person. HODA! If you read this, let's meet for latte, I am buying. I want to be a host at the Today show too! I think they need Tatiana!
No work tonight. I have been kind of tired all day, it's that time of the month for a lack of a better word and I usually feel sluggish for a day or two then. Today I did such exciting things as banking, made a trip to the grocery store, got Chhaya some joint medication......the poor little baby is limping after the long walk we did yesterday, got my mail, got a latte at Kaladi of course......and now I am going to read some gossip magazines to increase my general knowledge about important issues like pregnant celebs and who wore what.
Make sure to check back this weekend so YOU can find out the crucial info about what I will wear at work.........
This is what greeted me when I made it outside this afternoon. Not too bad.

It's a little after 2 am and I am sitting in bed after a fun but not financially rewarding night at work......I was there for about three hours, we closed early. But you know, some nights are fun,
so who cares about the money? I made $ 29. How many lattes is that going to get me?
Let's see.......if I ONLY get a latte then about 5, because I always tip at least one dollar. If I get a latte and a scone or a muffin or an apple fritter.......hmmmmmm about three visits - so not too bad then if you look at it that way! I'm latte rich! Besides I'd rather go to work and have a latte rich night than sit at home and do nothing, unless sitting at home and doing nothing is what I really want to do. How some people don't work or don't occupy themselves with something is strange to me, must be boring for them. If I don't go to work, I usually get some other stuff done. Like.....clean, count my money or dig out my ingrown hairs.



What happened at work.....let's see. I talked and laughed with my girlfriends. Always fun. Charmed three people that never been there before and they can't wait to come back and see me again. Stayed far away from a loud and obnoxious man that comes in once in a while. He is so rude that I don't know why he is even allowed in there. I don't even bother with him, money or not. If you are going to act like an ass I do not want anything to do with you and whatever you might have in your wallet. Tried to pretend that I didn't hear when a cab driver asked me twice if he could take me to dinner, "because he would love to talk to me outside of the club". Yes, I know. Everybody I meet and even avoid meeting would love to talk to me outside of the club, that's why I have a blog. So you can spend time with me, online. AND you don't have to pay for my dinner! Now, I can't have dinner or lunch with every person that asks, it's too complicated and neither do I want to. Just like Justin Bieber can't be with every girl that has a crush on him, it's the same way for me. Now I am in bed reading other people's blogs, I love it. It's my nightly ritual. I found a few Swedish blogs tonight, very good, written by some smart, opinonated, strong feminist women. I saw a picture on one of the blogs that I just had to post here on mine too.
I love it!



And the fantastic blog where I found above pic is....... http://moralfjant.blogg.se/