I made some phone calls and some texting today. Looks like I might go back to South Dakota in October to try out a club there. Not Frank Day's in Dallas, SD where I was last October and the year before, I don't want to go back there. Some other club but I will give you all the details about that if and when I go. October is still some time away. Also heard of a club in the Florida Keys I might try this winter, I have never been to Florida.
A very nice person gifted me a generous gift card for my half birthday.....awwwwww......! 🙂
So I am going to order a few books soon, Camilla Läckberg's latest for sure!
Soooooo........Friday night at work I "complained", actually spoke the truth to the manager about how few guys we had in the club. She replied that I wasn't making money because I am negative. OK. That is her opinion and it is an easy one to hide behind instead of dealing with THE TRUTH. There will be and are already fishing restrictions on the king salmon in effect. Therefore not as many people will be coming to town, that means that the club will hurt also. Last summer we only paid the full house fee when we did at least 5 dances. We pay $ 5 out of every dance we do. It might not sound like much but it adds up, remember I paid like $ 200 to the club a few weeks ago? I only brought up what other girls think and talk about but I actually bring it up instead of not saying anything, because I believe in democracy and speaking up for yourself and in return I get that I am negative. OK.....think whatever you want. Later on that night we all had to go on stage at the same time, like a herd of sheep.....BAAAAAAA! Kind of lame (us girls think) but many clubs do that, it's only for two songs here. While on stage I stood by the mirror in the far right corner. There was DOG POOP on the stage and I stepped in it with my heels. There are three dogs on the premises that come out now and then. Yeah.....don't even ask. LOL. I love those dogs though. So of course Tatiana steps in the poop. I motion for the manager to come over, or house mom or boss lady like I also call her. Those are her dogs after all. She cleaned it up and cleaned my shoe too. Afterwards she told me she was glad that I was the one that stepped in it because a few of the other girls would had thrown fits about it whereas I laughed it off. Really? She told me that I was so negative just an hour earlier. And here I am laughing about stepping in dog poop at work.
Let me give you some examples of what TRUE negativity is at the club. And this just happened last weekend, so hot off the press! The FUGLY girl, yes I think she is FUGLY, she has a face that needs a pillow on it, bullies guys into getting dances with her only. Instructs them not to get dances with the other girls. Pretends that she is their girlfriend. That is a HUSTLER my friends, a dirty hustler. Guys, really? How pathetic, desperate and easy manipulated are you?
And blind too obviously. I guess getting any VAGINE is better than no VAGINE at all for some, if you don't have any standards that is. No girl is your girlfriend unless she really is your girlfriend. There is a BIG difference between spending money on lap dances in the club and actually spending quality time with a girl outside the club. DUH! I would NEVER EVER tell a guy not to get dances with other girls. Why would I? Get dances from all of the girls you want.
You are not my boyfriend or husband, do what you want! In fact, I have several times introduced and encouraged guys, that I know come in specifically for me, to dance with other girls. I know that I will always get them back, because I am me. Neither would I ever pretend I am somebody's girlfriend. That is so LAME. No, I am NOT a hustler and I'm damn proud that I'm not. To me a hustler is somebody shady that is doing something bad.
How about when FUGLY, I am going to call her FUGLY from now on.....doesn't give guys their change back? For example, FUGLY gives you two dances, you give her a $ 100 bill and expect your change back but she pockets the $ 100, keeps it and walks away! You have to tell the manager about it to get your money back. I have NEVER done that and I would NEVER sink so low that I would do that. I always give back all the change, accept additional tips graciously and at the end of the dance you get a big hug, smile and THANK YOU. Whereas FUGLY stares into your wallet trying to figure out how to get more money out of you, then turns her back and pretends to be somebody else's girlfriend once she sucked you dry for the evening.
Another girl, a chunky barracuda face, got caught on tape STEALING wallets from guys. Is that something POSITIVE?
Correct me if I am wrong, but THAT if anything is NEGATIVE. That is what guys remember, talk about and makes them not return to the club ever again. I am the girl that will give you your money back if you drop it on the ground or forget it in the ATM by accident.
Do I even have to mention that doing dirty dances is beneath me......yes it is. I have NO PROBLEM saying that I am too good for that. Maybe it sounds like I am conceited or something to you, so be it. I'd rather be perceived as stuck up than be perceived as some cheap slore. What is up with chomping down on somebody's pants over the crotch with your mouth wide open? Are you hungry? Or kissing people in the lap dance room? Is that your man and you missed him? Frenetically rubbing guys crotches over the pants with your hands?
Are you cold and trying to warm up? Or how about sticking your hands down the pants on guys? Is their genital exam due and you are their physician? What is wrong with some of these "dancers"? Oh, or doing five or four nude dances for $ 100 while getting groped all over? What? At least charge the minimum that we are supposed to.
Trust me, I am NOT jealous. Not of the money they are making - stealing, manipulating or degrading themselves for. I'd rather go home with NOTHING than to make money like that. Neither am I jealous of the way they look. If you have seen me in the club, you know that I don' have to be jealous over a FUGLY broad or a chunky barracuda. I know this. So that is not the issue.
The issue is that it is WRONG. These girls destroy for all the other girls, they give strip clubs and dancers in general a bad name and if you are dumb enough to have fell for their schemes about being your girlfriend.......well, then I hope you got a reality check after reading this. Wake up.....smell the coffee and thank me later, I have probably saved you lots of money and some grief as well.
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I should add here that last Saturday I made $ 2 total off one set on stage (busy season so LOTS of tips on stage.....LOL) and another girl made $ 3 on her stage. On the other hand a few months ago I made over $ 200 off one set on stage.....during not busy season.
Some clubs pay you an hourly salary, like the Bush Company in Anchorage, you get minimum wage. You have a schedule and also pay $ 11/hour you work and tip out to three house moms ($ 10 to each), the dj and the bouncers (min $ 5 to each). But you keep the rest, no paying per dance you do and twice/month you do get that pay check so that adds up.
Good for you Annette about the bill.....I would had done that too. I am no angel.....I would had probably not said anything if a waitress would had forgotten to add a drink or my dessert on my bill, I will admit to that.
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Ohhhh......if I would manage a club....it would be good for the girls that is for sure and I would only hire quality girls, with an emphasis on behavior. I think that sets the tone.
Speaking of drinks.....a drink bought for a girl at my club is always $ 10, even if it's a non alcoholic drink. Last night a guy bought a girl 17 drinks, all cranberry juice. $ 170. I bet she would had rather that he gave her that money instead since the drink profit goes straight to the club.
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