Amazingly Enough I Don't Give A Shit

Last night I had the pleasure to chat at work with an educated gentleman about all kinds of things, covering topics from 1984 and Brave New World to how those issues are very relevant in today's society to our shared beliefs in population control and that the educated people in the US tend to stick to having one child or none while the rest choose to reproduce with no apprehension, how fun it is to go to Wal Mart and see "Wal Mart people" to a discussion about the Second Amendment and the recent influx of news about shootings that are fed to the people........and what is the real reason behind that is, you might wonder.......? Just to mention a few topics that got covered. About time somebody with a working brain came in. So yeah, I had a good night. And then there were some persistent drunks or meth heads or a mix of both that could absolutely not understand why I didn't want to join them. One guy claimed to "have the most money in the place", well fantastic for you then but I'm good where I am, enjoying a civilized and interesting conversation instead of having to suffer in your annoying company and the money you might be willing to share. No thanks. Oh and then the neanderthal from not too long ago came back, the one I got kicked out because he demanded my phone number from me and then when I declined to give it to him decided to call me a bitch an few times. Yeah, him.
Of course I ignored him.......although I could see that he was looking at me now and then.
By the way I am a very observant person in general, I see and hear everything - like Superman. So then at the end of the night he decided to come up and apologize for his behavior, but I cut him off and told him that I didn't want to hear it. Apologize a few more times and then MAYBE I will accept it. And think before you verbally assault somebody for no reason next time. Anyways........
So a few night ago I was talking to a guy that told me that he has been telling all kinds of people about me (good things). I've heard this many times before. Because people don't think it is worth even coming into the club because they have heard there are no pretty girls working there. According to him I would be hot in even Scottsdale Arizona. Really? I have to go there immediately! LOL.
The thing is that the club I am at has a rather bad reputation. Or should I say, the local women in town talk a lot of trash and spread rumors that all the girls working here at the club are very unattractive, have all kinds of diseases (STD's) and that it is an awful place in general. I have talked to a few of the girls that have worked here for some time now and they all say that some years ago the women working in the club were indeed rather "rough" looking and behaved that way too but that it has cleaned up and improved a lot since then. I think that there are some girls in the club that should not be dancing and that is my personal opinion but I have seen girls that I don't think should be dancing in Anchorage, Vegas, New York, Denver, Grand Junction, LA - you name it. And then of course we have a few that should not be dancing because they are plain dirty whores at work. THAT is very bad for business. Be like that outside of the club all you want. And if you are a guy that goes to clubs and you think that it is great that some girl is jerking you off or going down on you - think again! Most likely, she is NOT keeping her hands and mouth clean in between guys so if somebody has some crotch related problem chances are that you will leave the club with the same problem. If you visit a brothel on the other hand you will get the same service but without the risk of getting an STD because they practice safe sex in brothels. The sex act in itself has no place in a strip club and it is up to the owner and manager of the club to make sure the rules are followed! I have NO respect for dancers that do shit like that. You are not a dancer if you do this, call yourself what you really are. And go work in a brothel or something so I don't have to look at you.
Actually last night six local ladies came in and they were all very nice and had fun and all of them were of the big and beautiful caliber. So for women to spread nasty rumors and lies around that ALL strippers are ugly, gross and dirty makes me wonder what they really look like? I can understand getting upset if a your boyfriend or husband makes a habit of coming in but confront HIM about that, don't make up bullshit about the dancers. I personally am not interested in breaking up any marriage or take anyone's boyfriend. I have never been involved with a taken man. Do you really think that I want to be your children's new Mom? No thanks. I do not need your kids, your man or anything that belongs to you. The only married man I think is absolutely irresistible is Chester Bennington and even he would have to get a divorce before I would get with him. I would make an exception to deal with the unwanted baggage of his kids for him.
So FYI, I am not some ugly, disease ridden, dumb skank trying to take your man. Most likely I am more educated than you are. Having seen a lot of the SHOUGARS and SLORES around this town I understand why they feel insecure and jealous. I wouldn't want to be them either. Like it is so much better to go out to the local bars, get wasted, act like a dumb ass and sleep around.
At least I make money at the bar I am at, I don't get wasted and sleep around with random people either. I guess that is ok if that's what you really want to do but then stand for that behavior and don't talk shit about dancers that don't do that.
I am not claiming that dancing is an occupation that takes a certain level of intelligence, anyone can do it. And I am not saying that what I do is changing the world for a better place. But then again, what do YOU do to make this world a better place? Anything? I am myself a big believer in altruism and hopefully one day I will be able to do something meaningful on a daily basis. Meanwhile I am dancing and I am happy. Do not be so quick to judge all dancers is what I am trying to say. I have met many dancers with great personalities, intelligence and looks - quite a combination! And to the people that do think I am a deplorable and immoral person because of what I do.......guess what? Amazingly enough I don't give a shit! XOXO