Last night while Tatiana was in the dressing room touching up on her pink MAC lip gloss, a girl that she works with came out of the bathroom, crying.
Of course, the other girls that were in the dressing room asked her what was wrong. Tatiana did not pay much attention to the usual drama, until she heard this......."I only made $ 70 tonight and because of that I will get my ass beat when I get home".
This made Tatiana react. WTF!? Tatiana and the other girls gathered around the crying girl, trying to talk some sense into her. Trying. With not much success.
This girl is also a MOM, she has at least two kids, maybe more (Tatiana is not sure exactly how many). And she drinks every night that she works, she gets drunk, Tatiana also heard that she might have a problem with prescription pills, if this wasn't enough, she also is managing to keep a "boyfriend" that beats her if she comes home with an amount that is not satisfactory to him. Can you people that read this believe this shit?
It's one thing if you are dumb enough to be in a bad relationship for a while, we all make mistakes and hopefully learn something from them so we do not go down that road again. But when you are a MOM, you have your children to think about first. Number one, you should definitely not get drunk every night, ease up on the drugs and not be in a violent relationship. Priorities baby!
Ooooh, if Tatiana was with a guy that would beat her......well that pretty little Glock she has would come into very good use, let's just say that.
The girl basically said that she is scared to go home with $ 70. That means that this guy she is with, beats her on a regular basis.
If you are together with somebody and you have an argument and things get heated once or twice due to tempers flaring. Ok, that can be overlooked, if it doesn't go too far that is. But if you are in a relationship that is violent on a regular basis, then you need to get out, asap. NOT ok.
And if you have children, your number one responsibility is to provide the children with a safe, calm, positive home environment. NO excuses!
Tatiana has been watching lots of tv the last couple of weeks in the afternoon, not much else to do when you are away from home. And there is an awful lot of domestic violence going on. Some crazy Mom just shot her two teenagers, some other Mom in Anchorage fed her adopted child hot sauce and threw him into a cold shower as a way of punishing him, a toddler found dead in a canal, men killing their wives. What the hell is going on?
Tatiana has always said, having children is not something everybody should participate in. Just because you can have kids does not mean that you should.
Please, do the world a favor and refrain from reproducing if you can' be a good parent. Rule of thumb, if you can't take care of yourself, then you will most likely not be able to take care of a baby. A child will not solve your problems, your life will become even more complicated when you decide to become a parent.
Why do people not get this?
Tatiana could have a few kids by now. But she does not want to. By choice.
When she sees girls like this one at work, she does not feel sorry for them, she feels sorry for their children, the children that have to live in a bad home environment, they are the one's suffering, they did not ask to get born. This girl does not HAVE to be with this asshole that beats her, no man is that great that you need to be with him if he beats you. She is the one that decides to get drunk every night. She doesn't have to. It's a choice.
It is totally possible to work 100 % sober, Tatiana does. And btw, last night there was a very annoying man, in his 40's that could not for his life understand why Tatiana did not want to order a drink or a beer when he offered to buy her one. Why? Why, don't you drink, why? Like he was just so annoying about it. Tatiana just walked off, she has no patience with idiots.
Tatiana is not in there to develop a drinking habit, she is in there to make money. And also Tatiana rather be sober and stay beautiful then to be drunk and look like a prune later on in life. Drunk girls are embarrassing. Drunk guys are annoying, Tatiana can't stand them.
There is more than one girl in this club with a drinking and/or drug problem. Some girls are constantly running in an out of the bathroom. Either they have to pee really bad all the time, or they have constant diarrhea or they like to snort something.
Tatiana thinks that a club should not employ girls with obvious drinking or drug problems. These girls are a bad representation of the club. It looks SO bad. In the end they will only cause problems. They usually don't care how they make their money, as long as they make some. So, they will do whatever to make it. And that creates issues for the other girls that stick to the rules and then it creates problems for the club. Not good.
Tatiana is surprised that club management doesn't realize this. Are they blind? Or just greedy? If Tatiana had a club, she would not hire trashy girls. Bleh.
Also, right now Tatiana is not taking any request for boyfriend candidates. Unless your name is Keoki Franconi or Chester Bennington. Tatiana will make exceptions for these two. Or Rihanna and Ellen DeGeneres.
So don't even ask. Nothing personal, but Tatiana is busy, she does not have the time.
